In order to be able to let their body and mind get better relaxation and development, many people will use the holiday period to travel, most people will not go out alone, often with their own friends, on the road can also have a companion, take care of each other. However, those who have travel experience will tell us that we should never travel with our relatives and acquaintances. It is easy to cause conflicts and troubles in some aspects and reduce people’s sense of travel experience. Why is this?

1.consumption concept

Travel is best a person to solve, because a person can be free, do anything no matter what they want to do is determined by their own subjective will. Everyone has a different concept of consumption, some people think that since they go out to travel should spend money lavishly, let themselves fully enjoy the happiness of travel.

And some people their consumption concept is more cautious, will not let themselves go out to buy things, so the two kinds of people when buying things are prone to conflict, if the conflict is too big, it is likely to make the whole journey become unhappy. Some people go out, no matter where they like to take advantage of, although they can not express in the open, but behind the scenes do a lot of action, in order to reduce their travel expenses, will spend friends to solve their own things.

2.different hobbies

Some people especially like to enjoy the beauty of nature in the countryside, and some people especially like to enjoy the cultural landscape, so people’s different hobbies make them watch different scenery, which also makes people produce a certain sense of distance between them. What’s more, once you have a conflict with your friends, you are embarrassed to lose your temper from your friends. As the saying goes, good distance produces beauty. Only when you keep a far enough distance from your friends, can you see the advantages of each other and ignore the disadvantages of each other, so as not to hate each other.

3. Be extra careful when traveling with friends

Some people think that the risk factor of traveling alone is too great. They hope to have a friend to accompany them and have a person to give them advice when encountering dangerous situations on the road. If you want to spend time with friends for this reason, think ahead and make your decision carefully. Before traveling, it is suggested that everyone should assign their own tasks. Some people are responsible for the travel route, some people are responsible for the food on the road, some people are responsible for booking hotels and so on. Only when everyone understands their personal status in the team, can the team’s ability be maximized.

Everyone understands their own division of labor, work together to cooperate, can reduce the number of conflicts and quarrels in the journey, do not show their lazy character in public, otherwise it will cause other people’s aversion. We in the face of relatives and friends, do not have to restrain their temper, not because of some small things on the random angry to them, otherwise it will let relatives and friends from their more and more far away, will quarrel will affect the feelings between each other, let oneself and friends set the bottom of the parting.

But also can not blindly tolerate, will only let them feel that they are easy to bully, once the other side of any problem, they must be timely correct out, and tell him to correct in time, otherwise it will affect the feelings between each other, must find a correct solution. Both parties must solve the problem in time, stand in each other’s perspective to look at the problem, understand each other’s true thoughts, can not be stubborn, impose their own ideas on others, selfish help others to make decisions, which will only make others hate.

In the process of travel, sometimes you need to make concessions, but you can’t blindly tolerate, stick to your own point of view, and don’t let others feel that you are a soft touch. Therefore, before traveling, you should make a variety of planning and preparation, to understand everyone’s character and taste. Tour guides who often travel will tell people that they must think carefully when choosing tourist objects and try to travel alone. If they are really worried about their own safety, they can go out with tour groups instead of traveling with their relatives and friends.

Because relatives and friends in the process of travel conflict and quarrel, on the one hand affect our travel mood, on the other hand also destroyed the deep feelings between each other, is not worth the loss, rather than so reduce the contact time.