Brazil is actually a very special country, because the race in this country is very complex, people are relatively open, in the face of some strangers, they may kiss and hug to show their welcome and politeness. And in many countries around the world, their meeting etiquette is quite unique. In China, it might be a handshake. In India, they may touch their feet.
In Brazil, when many people entertain these guests, the hostess usually invites them to take a bath together, which is called a “bath” in their country. But these local Brazilian men, they can’t take it. If we, as male tourists, were invited to take a bath with these women, we would probably be very happy. But if we as the husband of these women, these women invite some male tourists to take a bath together, may feel very uncomfortable. After all, taking a shower is a private thing, and if something bad happens in the process, it may be very painful and embarrassing.
However, in the eyes of Brazilians, they consider it a very high treat to invite guests to take a bath. Therefore, some of us Chinese may be conservative. When we want to refuse, we should try to do as the Romans do instead of directly refusing, because it is the best way to do as the Romans do. Brazilians are basically very direct, because the climate is very hot, and they are very direct about things. In addition, if they invite guests to take a bath, if the guests take a bath for a long time, then usually means that the host is satisfied with the reception. Of course, the host and guest may shower together if there is something to be communicated between the host and the guest.
In Brazil, you can actually see that the majority of people are basically religious. A lot of people may be Catholic, people have a lot of religious faith, but some people are more open and direct, and Brazilian women tend to dress more exposed in the hot climate. In addition, their faces are very attractive, so if these men are invited to take a bath, many of the women’s husbands or boyfriends are usually not accept, they are afraid of something bad. In addition, these Brazilian women are more direct and not very conservative about sex. They are likely to meet someone they like and have a one-night stand.
Moreover, the feelings of these Brazilians are relatively direct and unrestrained. Maybe some people will love heaven and earth when feeling, but if there is no emotion, many people will be very thorough. This makes many Chinese people can not accept, because most Chinese people are also more friendly, if the breakup is ugly, we may not accept it, and there is no way to make friends, these Brazilians they may do things without considering the consequences. Moreover, in the hot summer, these Brazilian women not only wear cool clothes, the most important thing is that they may go out without underwear, Chinese male tourists will feel very shy to see here, and even leave in a hurry.
In addition, Brazilians may treat guests with enthusiasm. They may prepare a lot of fruit plates for you, even a lot of wine and coffee, and when the guests finish eating and drinking, they may give us a refill, these fruit plates or cups are basically not empty. Moreover, these Brazilians believe that they are born to be free and happy. There is also a Brazilian Carnival which is very attractive. They also like to wear strange clothes and show their unique personalities. These Brazilians still like to sunbathe, although the local temperature is relatively hot, but they like to blacken the skin, especially how women tan the skin, will look more advanced, the body will be more attractive and sexy. And while these girls may be wearing skimpy clothes while sunbathing on the beach, they usually don’t feel uncomfortable.
All in all, when you go to Brazil, you may need to embrace a very direct and open culture. It is these women who may invite these guests to take a bath with them. For people in other countries, bathing is still a private affair, and many people may not get used to it.